Introduction

Emotional intelligence is a decisive factor in the different human relations, whether their relation with themselves, others as friendship relations, work relations, or others. When we learn the emotional intelligence skills, we would be more capable of reading, dealing and empathizing with others, and understanding and accepting the different personalities, since every human being has their merits and flaws. Continuing training, we would be more capable not only of empathizing and dealing with others, but influencing them and changing them to the best. With understanding and accepting people, you would be more capable of learning their weaknesses, and having the keys of changing their personalities. We would be more capable of understanding ourselves, then taking the full responsibility in mending such relations by changing ourselves first instead of waiting around for the others to change. Yes, oftentimes do we ignore what we want? Or lose the ability to express about what we want, and we later complain that the others don’t understand us because in fact we don’t understand ourselves and express them enough, how then would the others be able to understand us?

When we understand the emotional intelligence skills, not only would we be more capable of learning ourselves, but we would be able to mend them and improve any dysfunction of whatsoever, and we are able to control ourselves, we would surely be able to mend lots of our relations. Therefore, if you had the power to change yourself, you would be capable of possessing the power to change the others.

Thus, we would together take a step by step in the emotional intelligence degrees until we reach the apex, and the higher awareness level in dealing with ourselves and others as well. Success in real life can’t by all means be credited to more than 20% of our level of intelligence. However, 80% of success at work comes from the emotional intelligence. The emotional intelligence is the core element for reaching and resting at the top in any field.